Beyond Mommyhood

Ladybugs

by Heligirl on July 25, 2012

in Beyond Mommyhood

I suddenly noticed an aphid problem with my roses. Not wanting to get chemicals, I did the good green thing and bought a little tub of ladybugs. Yup, you can buy a hundred or so at the local hardware store. The instructions said water the garden then let them go into the base of the […]

A Punch in the Face

by Heligirl on July 22, 2012

in Beyond Mommyhood,Relationships

I’m at a complete loss. In fact, I can’t even think of a snarky diatribe to accurately illustrate what I’m feeling. I’ve never encountered this before. I have heard a few somewhat similar stories from friends, but I figured I was rather selective in my closest friends so this would never happen to me. Welcome […]

Passion

by Heligirl on July 18, 2012

in Beyond Mommyhood

Without passion, something that really sets me on fire, I’m a lost soul floating aimlessly in this vast sea of life. Colors are muted and sounds dull. Energy is low, patience is even lower and my overall outlook can be a little on the negative side. Ok. More than a little. To be honest, I […]

The Weight Loss/Energy Gain Battle

by Heligirl on June 27, 2012

in Beyond Mommyhood

I’ve been thin my whole life, priding myself in the fact that I could still wear my college clothes all the way up until I was pregnant. Heck, I could even wear high school shirts and skirts (pants not so much because I grew just a smidge in the hips in college). I could never […]

Gratitude

by Heligirl on May 3, 2012

in Beyond Mommyhood

I feel like I’ve been racing to keep up with life as it throws me curveballs and keeps me on my toes. In a down economy, where I was laid off, money concerns stay in the back of my mind. And I’ve been worried like mad about retirement for decades. How lame is that, worry […]

Smile for Friday

by Heligirl on April 20, 2012

in Beyond Mommyhood,Poochies

A dear friend sent me this to help me heal this week. I love it so much I had to share. Yes, that’s how it’s going to be. Have a great weekend everyone. Tweet

How I Feel

by Heligirl on April 18, 2012

in Beyond Mommyhood,Poochies

My dear sweet puppy passed away in his sleep Sunday morning. He must have left just before I got up because he was still warm when I found him. I curled him up in my arms and cried my eyes out. It’s been three days. My heart is completely broken. I’ve read the rainbow bridge […]

Parrot Owner for a Day

by Heligirl on April 13, 2012

in Beyond Mommyhood

Last Tuesday I had a parrot. Let me explain. While letting out my little pooch for is semi-hour potty break (diuretics will do that), I was greeted by a bird. It freaked when it saw my dog and flew to the fence that borders my yard. At first I thought it was one of those […]