Positive Discipline

Another installment in my Positive Discipline Articles. One valuable lesson I’ve learned in Positive Discipline is to take time and prepare my kids for transitions. I follow this religiously and have since Sweetness was about one year old. It really truly works and has helped steer us clear of so many tantrums. When I talk […]

Breaking the Cycle

by Heligirl on April 30, 2010

in Daily Ramblings

I was a ball of nerves, anger and frustration. The man I was dating mentioned a former girlfriend’s name once and that she was his “first.” I discovered she was attending my school and I was obsessing over this woman – where was she, what did she look like, did she care she took his […]

Another installment in my Positive Discipline Articles My buddy Kris brought up a great point in the comments to my last article, When Discipline Goes Bad. Setting your little one up for success is a big part of positive discipline. In fact, that is one of the 12 strategies in this article. In Laura David […]

When Discipline Goes Bad

by Heligirl on April 19, 2010

in Parenting Articles

Another installment in my Positive Discipline articles. I took the kids to Lincoln Park today. As we sat down on the rocky beach in the balmy 70 degrees and watch the birds, ferries and helicopters (that’s what was out there), I began to overhear this mom trying to discipline her child. I think the boy […]

Keeping it Positive

by Heligirl on April 11, 2010

in Parenting Articles

If you see your child pulling the dog’s tail, what is the first thing that jumps into your head to say? If it’s something like “Don’t pull the dog’s tail,” then you’re like most everyone out there. I know I was raised with “don’t do this,” “don’t do that” and it comes naturally to say […]

During one of my parent group sessions at preschool last year, our parent facilitator shared a handout with us about the importance of caring for ourselves in the overall scheme of providing positive discipline for our children. Yes, it seemed rather intuituve that if my needs were met, I’d be in a better position to […]

Beware of Praise

by Heligirl on March 26, 2010

in Parenting Articles

Earlier this week I attended a Compassionate Parenting class, the last in a set of three, offered through my co-op preschool program. This class is based very much on the Sanity Circus class I took last year. It is basically the Positive Discipline curriculum, but the small print says the instructor can’t call it that […]

17 Positive Discipline Guidelines

by Heligirl on March 16, 2010

in Parenting Articles

When I attended the Sanity Circus class put on by the Puget Sound Aldlerian Society, we were given a handout that really broke down Positive Discipline for me. I’ve written it up for you here. It came from the Positive Discipline website. There are a couple of things to keep in mind: 1) some of […]